Cope Ahead to help handle uncertainty

Cope Ahead to help handle uncertainty

I just listened to a short video where the wonderful Marsha Linehan, PhD talks about her technique of “cope ahead”  to help us handle uncertainty. What a great thing to think about!  She suggests that we identify the threat that we are faced with then...
Mindfulness

Mindfulness

There are so many great therapists and researchers and thinkers out there working on ways to better understand how we are in the world. The latest advances in brain scans (fMRIs) have allowed therapists to look at the intersection between body and mind, thoughts and...
Kids and Lying

Kids and Lying

Lots of times parents worry about the lies their children tell.  Here is what David Swanson, Psy.D says about that in his very helpful book Help – My Kid is Driving Me Crazy (Penguin Publishing 2009):   “Every child lies. And though it may seem hard to...
Parenting and Natural Consequences

Parenting and Natural Consequences

Natural Consequences can be hard to apply!  It can be difficult as  parents to let our kids experience the consequences of their actions.  I had a perfect opportunity to do just that this morning and I didn’t take it.  My son was going to be late for a class...
Thoughts on Anger

Thoughts on Anger

Anger is an emotion associated with feeling wronged by another, feeling frustrated or blocked from achieving a goal. Angry feelings can fall within a range, from mild annoyance to blinding rage. Anger can be positive, spurring us to figure out a problem or express...